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One of the most entertaining, if not completely ludicrous books on dating ever written, detailed a real strategy to "work a club" and "pick up bitches". The premise was go to the club and pretend like you are the club owner. If you performed like the owner thought, you'd make people feel special and welcome... and it would be reciprocated. A startling observation I discovered- the club owner 'technique' could be applied everywhere. One's personal coolness doubled or tripled if the confidence was there.
You are the bouncer and owner to Club Cool. The doors are open 24/7. Roll like everyone wants you around you. Better yet, radiate like you're confident but not cocky. You are the owner, so be classy. Do as the owner would do to keep his club kickin'.
Treat people like you care about them. Be honest. Try to keep your nose clean.
Threaten people with the loss of your friendship, if they get out of hand... they are guests of Club Cool, and you're running it. Jerks won't bring lucrative business.
Everyone wants to be with you, or at least, one day they will. You have to give an air of respect before you'll get it. You also need a sharing attitude. This may take some time to hone.
The secret is in the make-believing you're in charge. Fake it 'til you make it.
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