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In the prison-like setting of middle school, I got a toy. An honor student was assigned to tutor my ass in math. Her lesson were transcripts of teacher-speak ...useless. I enjoyed parroting her ineffective body language that was a full one second behind her speech. This was a juicy second delay between her hands and mouth that branded her a socially dull person. Her social fail attracted bullies.
We pretended to communicate. I did my best to imitate her and not let her catch on. With the tutor-chick, I savor the most disastrous conversational exchange ever.
Do not "use your hands to talk," but "let your hands express what you're not saying." It helps if there's some legwork done, analyzing when your hands speak, and on what topics. If hands get stimulated, then let hands lead the conversation -not follow.
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